Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Anonymous sharing time!

It's time for anonymous sharing! Leave a note, question, comment, fantasy, etc. that you wouldn't otherwise leave if you couldn't be anonymous. Or, if you're feeling brave and/or have a secret identity, use the name you like.

Something to get you started: What's a socially unacceptable (even among kink social circles) fantasy that you have? What makes it unacceptable, and what makes it hot?

Tuesday, April 26, 2011


Your question for today (and feel free to answer anonymously): Have you ever gone to great lengths to invade the privacy of someone's sex life? Was it a good decision? Did you later regret it? Do they know?

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

QOTD: More sharing

QOTD - When was the last time you shared something explicitly sexual (photographs, intimate details, the same sexual space, etc.) with someone other than your primary partner(s)? Is it a regular part of your sexual life, or not that common?

Monday, February 28, 2011

Morning Question: Poke Poke

Your question of the morning - what percentage of the time do you have intercourse when you're doing sexy things with a partner? Are there other activities that you do more often?

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

QOTD: Foodstuffs

Do you have experience with incorporating food into sex successfully? Not just whipped cream, bananas or other porn staples, but making food/eating part of a sexual act?

I've written a few times about how I find ripe mangos to be very erotic, and recently I'm finding that most sweet, messy foods give me a similar feeling. I know about messy food play, but that seems like an absurd extension - I'm wondering about an occasional incorporation that's beyond feeding each other strawberries, but not quite pudding wrestling.


Monday, January 17, 2011

QOTD - "Pervert"

Do you consider yourself a "Pervert"? Do you have a positive or negative connotation of the word? Do you prefer other terms to describe your feelings/actions/lifestyle choices?

Thursday, December 16, 2010

QOTD: Uniformity in BDSM

It's always seemed kinda strange to me how homogeneous (no pun intended) the bdsm fetish scene is - so much black leather/vinyl/rubber, contrived master/slave situations, odd "rules" and "scenes". Even given the variety, it's an odd amount of uniformity for an "alternative kink".

Am I the only one who thinks so? I realize there are many levels of situational play and different flavors of specific fetishs, but I've always gotten the impression that "the scene" would look negatively on anyone in the public sphere who took a very different approach. Your thoughts?