Thursday, April 30, 2009

Doing something right...

Couple number one: Secured.

We've never had sex with them, for good reason - it's the wife's best friend and her husband. Not exactly "off limits", but still kinda weird. So assuming there are more attendees than just the four of us, it's good (the wife wants to be able to keep her distance from the best friend, at least while the action is happening - harder to do if there aren't more people there).

Couple number two is interested, but we're waiting to see if they can make it down (we have a lot of people from Northern California on our "to do" list, but the party's down here). Our local friends are still a "maybe" - I don't want to bug them, but it'd be nice to get planning.

I'll be talking to couple number four soon, and while I'm sure they're interested, I'm not sure they're available. Still considering whether it's gonna be all couples or some singles too - guess it depends on who can make it. But so far, so good! If everyone's a "yes", that's 12 people, pretty awesome. That's not even counting any friends-of-friends who may get invited.

If you're reading this, and I know you, and you're interested, let me know!

Friday, April 24, 2009

Getting down to planning

The wife is very much down with the idea of a sex party at the house - as long as I plan it. This isn't a big surprise - she's very much the "take it as it comes" type, and loves a lot of things - she just doesn't care if it doesn't happen.

So it's on me.

As always, scheduling is the biggest bitch with these things, and most everything else other than the female/male ratio just secondary. I'm going to write up the process, both for others interested in doing such a thing, and to motivate me (both in writing, and in planning). Here's what I'm thinking, as of today, anyway:

- Couples-mostly party. My single lady friends will be welcome too. Luckily for me, there really aren't any single guys I'd have to tell "no, sorry dude" to.

- At LEAST a 50/50 ratio of men to women, preferably with one or two extra women.

- June, before it gets too hot. Hot and naked is fun, sweating when you're not even doing anything? Not so much.

- Mostly people I know. Close friends-of-friends are great, but I'm not going to open it up to strangers (so get to know me now).

- 8-12 people total. That gives everyone both the option to do a lot of things/people, and the option to check out without feeling like they're depriving someone else.

I'm not sure yet on location. My house is definitely easiest and big enough, but there are logistical issues as well. A hotel could work, but we'd need a pretty awesome suite with at least 3 beds -still, it's doable.

Any advice or suggestions are welcome - I've tried planning a few of these before, but scheduling issues have always gotten in the way. I think the first step is find out when the norcalers can make it down, and plan accordingly. More updates soon!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Sexy party!

Not that there are a lot of you reading, yet, but man, I really shouldn't go a month between updates...

While I decide this periodically, I've decided again that it's time for a larger (8-12 people) sex party. Well, maybe a "sexy party" - not everyone has to have sex there if they don't want - but at least a party where it's encouraged and provided for. There's actually more interest this time, assuming we find a date that works for everyone (always an issue). It doesn't help that half the likely attendees are in northern California, but hey, what can you do?

Updates to come!