Tuesday, March 30, 2010

QOTD - Scheduling

Do you "schedule" sex (or other playtime) with your regular partner? Or just let it happen? Are there times you both assume sex will happen (like a Saturday night), or is there always some sort of negotiation?

Friday, March 26, 2010

Guest QOTD: Outdoors

Today we've got a guest Question of the Day from my dear friend Sin:

Outdoor sex. Do other people get off on it as much as me? I have a thing. beaches, forests, rain, etc. I want it. I love being topless outside. It's a weird big reason I miss Burning Man.

Currently, my obsession is wanting to fuck on top of a high rise in a big city. :)

This one gave me a rise just reading it, because I could tell how hot it was for her, so my afternoon's already better. Enjoy!

Thursday, March 25, 2010

QOTD: What's Turning You On?

What's turning you on recently? Any specific people, places, things? Is it totally new to you, or the return of something old?

Some FYI - I've been posting a "Question of the Day" every weekday for a couple weeks now on my Facebook page (to certain facebook friends - filters and friends lists are wonderful things when your boss and siblings can see your page), and I've been including some here so others can comment, or anyone can comment more anonymously. I'm not sure how long I'll keep it up, and I plan to have some more "normal" posts soon, but I like the quick format and the little discussions the QOTD brings.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

QOTD: Still Sensitized

What (if any) legal kinks/perversions/sexual acts surprise/horrify/alarm you? Do you find yourself generally less sensitive to the strange and unusual?

Monday, March 22, 2010

QOTD: Nomenclature

Are you more likely to come to a party where people are free/encouraged to have sex if it's called a "sex party" or "sex-friendly" party, as opposed to "orgy"? Or does the name not matter, because you'll talk to the host for details long before committing?

Thursday, March 18, 2010

QOTD: Lustful

Do you tell friends when your feelings for them turn regularly lustful? Does it depend on the friend? Does it depend on the type of primary relationship you're in? Does it ever lead to lustful things?

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

QOTD: Underpants

Does your partner's choice in undergarments make a difference in how you see them, sexually or otherwise? Do you think others judge you on yours?

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

QOTD: Hot, But Not For Me

Do you enjoy watching pornography of acts/content that you'd never actually consider doing yourself?

Monday, March 15, 2010

Question of the Day - Inanimate

What's the oddest inanimate object you've ever involved in sex play (directly or indirectly - it didn't have to be penetrated/do the penetrating)? Was this a regular occurrence? One-time situation? Someone else's kink?

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Question of the Day - Missing Out

Is there anything you're missing out on sexually that you don't think you'll be getting in your current relationship(s)?

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

QOTD: Food

Food and sex are two of life's greatest pleasures. Should the two ever meet, either gastronomically or in more interesting ways? Or are two great things best left to themselves?

Monday, March 1, 2010


Your discussion question of the day: What's the largest age spread that you've had between yourself and a partner? Did age ever factor into your relationship/sex? Do you prefer people much older/younger? Has it made a difference for you?

I'm entirely inexperienced with anyone more than 3 years younger or older than me, but I'd happily go 10 years in either direction, at least sexually. Thoughts?