It's always seemed kinda strange to me how homogeneous (no pun intended) the bdsm fetish scene is - so much black leather/vinyl/rubber, contrived master/slave situations, odd "rules" and "scenes". Even given the variety, it's an odd amount of uniformity for an "alternative kink".
Am I the only one who thinks so? I realize there are many levels of situational play and different flavors of specific fetishs, but I've always gotten the impression that "the scene" would look negatively on anyone in the public sphere who took a very different approach. Your thoughts?